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This will go better if you

check your expectations at the door.

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We're not big on logic

but there's no shortage of irony.

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 Nice is different than good.

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Oh and ...

I flunked charm school.

So what.

Can't write anything.

> Jennifer <

Causing considerable consternation
to many fine folk since 1957

Pepper and me ... Seattle 1962


  

Hoist The Colors

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Insist on yourself; never imitate.

Your own gift you can present

every moment

with the cumulative force

of a whole life’s cultivation;

but of the adopted talent of another

you have only an extemporaneous

half possession.

That which each can do best,

none but his Maker can teach him.

> Ralph Waldo Emerson <

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Represent:

The Black Velvet Coat

Belay That!

This blog does not contain and its author will not condone profanity, crude language, or verbal abuse. Commenters, you are welcome to speak your mind but do not cuss or I will delete either the word or your entire comment, depending on my mood. Continued use of bad words or inappropriate sentiments will result in the offending individual being banned, after which they'll be obliged to walk the plank. Thankee for your understanding and compliance.

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In The Market, As It Were

 

 

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Contributor to

American Cemetery

published by Kates-Boylston

A Pistol With One Shot

Ecstatically shooting everything in sight using my beloved Nikon D3100 with AF-S DX Nikkor 18-55mm 1:3.5-5.6G VR kit lens and AF-S Nikkor 50mm f/1.8 G prime lens.

Also capturing outrageous beauty left and right with my Nikon D7000 blissfully married to my Nikkor 85mm f/1.4D AF prime glass. Don't be jeal.

And then there was the Nikon AF-S DX NIKKOR 18-200mm f:3.5-5.6G ED VR II zoom. We're done here.

Dying Is A Day Worth Living For

I am a taphophile

Word. Photo Jennifer Weber 2010

Great things are happening at

Find A Grave

If you don't believe me, click the pics.

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Dying is a wild night

and a new road.

Emily Dickinson

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REMEMBRANCE

When I am gone

Please remember me

 As a heartfelt laugh,

 As a tenderness.

 Hold fast to the image of me

When my soul was on fire,

The light of love shining

Through my eyes.

Remember me when I was singing

And seemed to know my way.

Remember always

When we were together

And time stood still.

Remember most not what I did,

Or who I was;

Oh please remember me

For what I always desired to be:

A smile on the face of God.

David Robert Brooks

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 Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many.

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Keep To The Code

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You Want To Find This
The Promise Of Redemption

Therefore seeing we have this ministry, as we have received mercy, we faint not;

But have renounced the hidden things of dishonesty, not walking in craftiness, nor handling the word of God deceitfully; but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God.

But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost:

In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.

For we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord; and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake.

For God, who commanded the light to shine out of darkness, hath shined in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.

We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;

Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;

Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.

For we which live are alway delivered unto death for Jesus' sake, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh.

So then death worketh in us, but life in you.

We having the same spirit of faith, according as it is written, I BELIEVED, AND THEREFORE HAVE I SPOKEN; we also believe, and therefore speak;

Knowing that he which raised up the Lord Jesus shall raise up us also by Jesus, and shall present us with you.

For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through the thanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God.

For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day.

For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory;

While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.

II Corinthians 4

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THE DREAMERS

In the dawn of the day of ages,
 In the youth of a wondrous race,
 'Twas the dreamer who saw the marvel,
 'Twas the dreamer who saw God's face.


On the mountains and in the valleys,
By the banks of the crystal stream,
He wandered whose eyes grew heavy
With the grandeur of his dream.

The seer whose grave none knoweth,
The leader who rent the sea,
The lover of men who, smiling,
Walked safe on Galilee --

All dreamed their dreams and whispered
To the weary and worn and sad
Of a vision that passeth knowledge.
They said to the world: "Be glad!

"Be glad for the words we utter,
Be glad for the dreams we dream;
Be glad, for the shadows fleeing
Shall let God's sunlight beam."

But the dreams and the dreamers vanish,
The world with its cares grows old;
The night, with the stars that gem it,
Is passing fair, but cold.

What light in the heavens shining
Shall the eye of the dreamer see?
Was the glory of old a phantom,
The wraith of a mockery?

Oh, man, with your soul that crieth
In gloom for a guiding gleam,
To you are the voices speaking
Of those who dream their dream.

If their vision be false and fleeting,
If its glory delude their sight --
Ah, well, 'tis a dream shall brighten
The long, dark hours of night.

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Freedom is a fragile thing and is never more than one generation away from extinction. It is not ours by inheritance; it must be fought for and defended constantly by each generation, for it comes only once to a people. Those who have known freedom and then lost it, have never known it again.

~ Ronald Reagan

Photo Jennifer Weber 2010

Not Without My Effects

My Compass Works Fine

The Courage Of Our Hearts

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 "I can name fingers and point names ..."

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That Dog Is Never Going To Move

~ RIP JAVIER ~

1999 - 2016

Columbia's Finest Chihuahua

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~ RIP SHILOH ~

2017 - 2021

My Tar Heel Granddog

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~ RIP RAMBO ~

2008 - 2022

Andrew's Beloved Pet

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Tuesday
Dec052023

The day before, the day of, and the days after

She knocked the pillows down just to stand on them

Oh dear.

Here I was thinking that Thanksgiving was just last week, and I only had yet to tell you about ours.

Then I realized that I thought that same thing all of last week, when it was actually true.

At some point I became OBE: Overcome By Events.

On Thanksgiving Eve we once again had the Hot Taco Dip

Now here we are another entire week removed.

We'd better get down to it.

Thinking linearly means going either backwards or forwards; right?

Because we're about to go backwards for a mo or two.

I'm not a pro cake baker/decorator but I did what I could

Anyway we had a spectacular Thanksgiving weekend, starting on Wednesday afternoon/evening when everyone arrived, and only ending on Saturday morning when Andrew, Brittany, Ember, and Guy drove away.

The meal that night was pizza (arranged by the kids) along with Mari's Hot Taco Dip (we omit the black olives) which is a major crowd pleaser. 

And for dessert? Birthday Cake. 

Our Ember was all set to turn four on December third, but none of us would be with her at her official birthday party.

Ember was thrilled with her book and markers

So I made her a cake, and I must tell you what a success it was.

The cake itself was strawberry flavored, made from a box mix that I zhuzhed up in my usual way:

Where the mix calls for water, I use milk (or better yet, buttermilk). Where it calls for oil, I use the same amount of melted butter. Where it calls for eggs, I use at least one (sometimes two) extra. Then I add a box of vanilla instant pudding mix, and in this case, a half-cup of sour cream.

She called this gift from TG and me her "wings"

It made a luscious cake that baked up two round layers just about perfectly.

For the frosting I went to the trouble of making a batch of American Buttercream from scratch.

That proved a challenge due to the fact that I do not own a stand mixer, but I used my hand mixer (which takes twice as long) and persevered, and the result was outstanding.

Then I decorated Ember's celebratory confection with pink sprinkles and candies and other things, and I was pleased with the outcome.

She'll be an angel in this dress for Christmas

So it was that on the night before Thanksgiving, TG and I, plus Ember's three aunts on her dad's side, brought our presents to give her after she'd blown out her four candles and we sang to her.

She received a sparkly red Christmas dress, an activity book with special clicky markers, and a play dress-up ring wardrobe, among other things.

Ember seemed happy with each and every gift and said THANK you! so sweetly to everyone in turn.

Aunt Audrey held Ember while we sang to her

That child loves life. It's a joy to behold.

So then, one sleep and it was Thanksgiving Day.

I spent the day in the kitchen, making the turkey and various sides. We ate at five o'clock.

Chad and Erica arrived at about three-thirty, having had Thanksgiving dinner at lunchtime with Chad's family.

Brittany brought these adorable plates for the littles

He told me he would not be able to eat again at five, but in spite of that, as usual, when the time came, he carved the turkey for me.

We also had loaked baked potato casserole, corn casserole (both in Crock Pots), and sweet potato casserole (made according to the Ruth's Chris recipe).

I also made the classic green bean casserole, and I've got to say: I won't be doing that again.

I sampled the turkey before handing the carving knife to Chad

I'm aware that it's pretty much a universal holiday side dish, but I just don't like it.

For Christmas I'll be reverting to my mother's tried-and-true family favorite, the broccoli casserole.

We also had deviled eggs and homemade sweet creamy Southern slaw, and homemade cranberry sauce, and the end of the bag of Brazi Bites.

I'd made yet another pecan pie

For dessert I had made a pecan pie, and the kids brought pumpkin pies and such.

No one went hungry unless for some twisted reason, they wanted to.

We hung out all evening and made plans for our annual Black Friday Picture Day.

This is the day that we all go someplace special to take pictures for everyone's respective Christmas cards.

My deviled eggs were zhuzhed up as well

It used to be that the only plan for that day was to capture Stephanie's family for their card.

But several years ago, since the others would come along for the outing, I began urging Cherica to pose up, and then Audrey and Dagny.

Then at one point, Audrey started taking pictures of TG and me, for our Christmas card.

Green bean and sweet potato casseroles

Now we just call it what it is: one big photo shoot involving five separate families.

Late on Thanksgiving night, Andrew, Brittany, and Little Andrew (our eleven-year-old grandson; he slept in our room on a pallet for the two nights his family were here) came into the kitchen.

Brittany wanted to heat up some of the leftover pizza from the night before. Little Andrew wanted some of the leftover loaded baked potato casserole.

Slow cooker loaded baked potato casserole

Big Andrew found a huge bag of Cretor's Cheese and Caramel Popcorn that I had bought at Costco and saved for just such an occasion.

We broke out a big bowl of that and the three of them snacked while I began gathering fall decorations into their storage bin.

It wasn't long before all of that was safely tucked away and I thought, let's go ahead and do Christmas.

Last batch of sweet creamy Southern slaw for 2023

The tree was already up and decorated and lit and so forth, shining in the window of the front room.

All the other decorations waited on two tables set up just for that purpose, in that room.

So I brought a whole bunch of them into the kitchen and decorated the table, and the ledge, and the coffee cart.

Then I took some stuff into the TV room and placed it here and there.

Crock Pot corn casserole

Before I slept on Thanksgiving night, Christmas was pretty well in place at Chez Weber.

What do you think of that? I told little Andrew: Around here we don't let any grass grow under our feet.

He gave me a blank look so I said, You don't know what that means, do you?

Homemade cranberry sauce

He admitted that he didn't, so I told him and then he smiled and agreed that we certainly don't.

And then it was time to sleep again.

Black Friday turned out to be perfect weather-wise, for our photo shoot. At three-thirty that afternoon, we all met downtown in an area that I call "behind Mast General Store" because that's what it is.

Dagny and Baby Elliot a/k/a Skippy "the Peanut" Porter

It consists of an alleyway with several picturesque scarred brick walls, some interesting signage, and a colorful loading dock.

I've taken so many pictures there through the years, I can barely remember them all.

Then we walked down Main Street to the Columbia Art Museum, which has a large forecourt featuring a very nice fountain.

Audrey and Dagny at the big mural

On the way I took pictures (with the Nikkor 18-200mm zoom lens affixed to my Nikon D7000) of a downtown squirrel who, although there were many people walking in his proximity on that fine day, was undeterred from his nut-consumption activities.

At the museum, I made sure to get photos of all four of our kids together in the same picture, as well as the grandkids all together in the same picture.

That's not as easy as it looks, since our Melanie won't let anyone near her except her parents.

Andrew, Brittany, Ember, and Guy

If anyone else comes within three feet of Melly, she becomes agitated and is likely to lash out.

We're not sure why she began doing this several years ago, because due to her disability, she does not have speech and cannot tell us.

We work around it. In this case Stephanie placed a chair a little ways from the fountain, so Melanie was included in the group.

Cherica with Rhett and Elliot at the loading dock

We take what we can get and it's all good.

After getting those shots, we continued walking another block to a massive mural wall, which presented endless opportunities for interesting backdrops.

By then it was beginning to be twilight, so we walked back to Mast General Store where we were all parked, and went inside to look around.

Stephanie, Joel, Melanie, Allissa, and Andrew at the museum

Although Mast Gen is the sort of store that makes you wish you were well-off enough to buy every single one of your Christmas presents there, I don't think anyone bought anything except for me.

Actually, TG bought it but I handed it to him and said I wanted it. It's a metal sign that I will show you in my next post, when I reveal all of my Christmas decorations.

I hope you're able to sleep between now and then. Apologies if the anticipation proves to be too much for your delicate psyche.

TG and me, Black Friday 2023

At any rate, all of that accomplished, it was time to say goodbye to our Stephanie and her family. 

They live in North Carolina, less than a three-hour drive away, but it's their tradition on this day to stop someplace special for supper.

Speaking of supper, on the way home, the rest of us went to Cracker Barrel for ours, then back to the house for coffee and leftover desserts.

L to R, youngest to eldest: Andrew, Erica, Audrey, Stephanie

I think you'll have to agree that not only did we not let any grass grow under our feet, but that we didn't waste a moment of our time either.

Speaking of time, it's now Christmastime, which means that everyone's favorite holiday is coming at us like a runaway freight train.

On the Sunday after Thanksgiving, I designed and ordered our Christmas cards.

Our eight grandchildren ... click to embiggen

On the Monday after Thanksgiving, I picked up said Christmas card order at CVS.

All one hundred-forty of them will go out to their fortunate recipients this week. 

(If you don't get one, it means that you have not provided me with your address.)

Rainbow on the coffee cart a week after Thanksgiving

Ninety-nine percent of my shopping is done, and my goal is to have everything wrapped and under the tree by the end of this week too.

The stockings are hung and as for my children's giant ones, they are stuffed with stuff.

Meanwhile there have been rainbows on my coffee cart in the morning. Upon said cart sits a Christmas corgi mug given to me by our beloved daughter-in-law Brittany at Thanksgiving.

Corgi's even cuter with foamy froth coming out of of his head

(I am much enamored of the corgi breed and it wouldn't take much for me to get one. Except, I already have a dog. So maybe later.)

Speaking of pets, my tuxedo cat, Sweetness, knocked the Christmas pillows off the bench in the sun room, just so that she could stand/sit on them.

Cheeky little sucker.

Black Friday for a busy downtown squirrel

Tell me in the comments about your Thanksgiving (if you want to look back that far), and about your Christmas preparations so far.

We're not getting any younger, you know.

And that is all for now.

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Happy Tuesday

Monday
Dec042023

Monday Mirth :: Life is full of surprises ... not all of them pleasant


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I will put up a proper blog post tomorrow.

That's not a threat but a promise.

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Happy Monday
Monday
Nov272023

Monday Mirth :: wise decision


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Happy Monday
Tuesday
Nov212023

Christmas

My six words, memorialized for my mother

The pirate is aware that it is Thanksgiving week, and not Christmas.

Not even December yet, as a matter of fact.

However.

Homemade pecan pie for Pastor Tony's family

My post is not as much about the beloved holiday, as it is about the word.

The word Christmas, that is.

Allow me to elaborate.

Spicy Cranberry Meatballs made from scratch

For the past two Friday nights, we have had guests over for dinner.

Last Friday, the seventeenth, it was to be a young family -- Eric and his wife Lauren, and their three-year-old daughter Alaina.

Except, at the last minute Eric was detained at work, and thought he might be able to get away in time to join us, but it turned out being only Lauren and Alaina who came for dinner.

On the seventeenth we had two special guests

But Audrey and Dagny were here, along with Chad and Erica and Rhett and Baby Elliot, and we had a great time even without Eric.

I served hamburgers and hot dogs that TG prepared on the grill. To dress those we had many toppings, including all the condiments and pickles and two kinds of cheese slices.

Our sides were apple pie baked beans, baked macaroni and cheese, an assortment of chips, creamy Southern slaw, and deviled eggs.

Apple Pie Baked Beans

For dessert we had homemade lemon brownies and pumpkin bread, plus a store-bought cookies and cream pie.

The beverage pail overflowed with ice-cold soft drinks and waters. And there was coffee.

What a marvelous visit it was, and we're so thankful that we were able to get together.

Dagny cradling Baby Elliot a/k/a Skippy

But a week ago last Friday night, on the tenth, we had a different bunch for dinner -- in addition to all of us.

It was Pastor Tony, co-pastor of our church, and his family.

Pastor Tony had recently returned from a ten-day trip to South Africa, where he went to encourage our missionaries there.

Tomatoes, onions, and mini cucumbers in a scratch-made vinaigrette

We wanted to hear all about his trip, so we invited them over.

Pastor Tony and his family have been at our church just since May of 2021, and they had never been to our house before.

For dinner that night I served spicy cranberry meatballs (meatballs made from scratch), slow-cooker baked potato casserole, classic green bean casserole, Crock Pot creamed corn, a fresh tomato-onion-mini cucumber salad, and scrumptious Brazi Bites (which I buy at Costco).

All the pumpkin-y stuff goes back into the bins this weekend

We also had three homemade desserts: vanilla pound cake with amaretto icing, pumpkin bread, and pecan pie.

Along with a large assortment of soft drinks, flavored waters, and plain water, both still and carbonated, surrounded by ice in the big pail. Plus coffee, of course.

It was a blast. We all ate, and Pastor Tony told us many stories about his trip, and showed us some pictures.

Pastor Tony sharing pictures with TG

Before supper, while I was showing the house to Pastor Tony's wife, Amanda, she commented on several framed cross stitch art pieces displayed on the wall in our TV room.

Some were made by my mother, some by me, and one by my friend Susan who passed away in 2011.

In that vein, and because it involved a recent happy discovery, I showed Amanda a bookmark that I cross-stitched for my mother about twenty years ago.

Pumpkin Bread

The story behind the bookmark is that when I was about four or five years old and just learning to write and spell, I became obsessed with writing the words CAT DOG RAT I LOVE YOU.

I have no memory of why those six words -- in that order -- resonated with me, but I wrote them constantly.

I've always liked putting pen or pencil to paper, but you have to believe me when I say that I think I may have written CAT DOG RAT I LOVE YOU five hundred times, on everything I could think to write it on.

With our burgers and dogs, we had plenty of chips

My odd scribblings became part of our family lore, and once in a while my mother would tell about it, and we would all laugh.

So it was that, back in 2003 or '04, I decided to make my mother a special gift by cross-stitching those words onto a pre-made Aida cloth bookmark that I got at the craft store. 

My project completed, I gave the bookmark to her in a card. Not for any special occasion that I remember, but just because.

Vanilla pounds cake with amaretto icing

And you'll have to take my word for it when I say, my mother's reaction to the gift was uncharacteristic and certainly not what I expected.

As in, you would have thought I'd given her something made of solid gold and set with precious stones.

Something with actual value other than sentimental. 

The wall of cross stitch pieces I showed to Amanda

She went on and on and on about that bookmark. She raved. She loved it. My mother was an avid reader and owned hundreds of books. In whatever book she was reading from the time I gave her that bookmark, the bookmark was in it.

When in her house over the years I would often see it lying on the table beside her chair, or peeking out from her latest read.

The last time I saw the bookmark (until recently), was not long before my mother died. 

For a crowd, we always make up the beverage bucket

She passed away on October 21, 2020, of pancreatic cancer. 

During the barely three months between the dire diagnosis and her death, I stayed with her and Henry at least half of the time. I'd be with them for a week, then go home for several days, then drive not quite two hours back to Greenville, to be with them for another week. 

Several weeks before her passing, Mom lost the strength to read. Her books were returned to their shelves.

Lemon Brownies

After she died and we had buried her and I went home, Henry began going through her things. I mentioned the bookmark and asked him to set it aside for me when he came across it.

Mom kept an immaculate house, so it should not have been difficult to locate the bookmark -- not least because it was almost sure to be found inside a book we had recently shelved.

But Henry couldn't find it. The next time we visited, a month or so after Mom's passing, I looked for it. I couldn't find it either.

Rhett is never here for long before he gets out the cars

Henry took apart the leather recliner Mom used, looking for it. No luck.

He finally told me that he really thought the bookmark had somehow been thrown away in the days either just before or just after Mom passed away.

I could hardly believe that, but I had to accept it. Still, every time I have been back in Mom's house over the last three years, I have looked for the bookmark (knowing I would not find it).

Deviled eggs are somewhat a specialty of mine

Until a few weeks ago, when Henry called me. As it happened, I did not pick up and he had to leave a voice mail.

He said, reading: Cat Dog Rat, I Love You, by Jenny.

Then he explained that my sister had returned several of my mother's Mitford books, which she had borrowed within the last couple of years.

For the hamburger supper we used melamine trays

And in flipping through the pages of one of those books, Henry came across my bookmark.

He put it into an envelope and mailed it to me, and it reached me safely.

Now, so that it will not be handled too much and my children will know where to find it when I'm gone, I keep the bookmark tucked inside my cherished book The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson, which I received as a gift from my late mother-in-law nearly forty years ago, and which is always on a small table beside my chair.

Store-bought cookies and cream pie

So I was showing the bookmark to Amanda -- Pastor Tony's wife -- and telling her about it, when she shared a story that I know will stay with me always.

It's quite simple: When her son Gideon -- who is now eighteen -- was four or five years old, he discovered, learned to spell, and subsequently became enamored of, the word Christmas.

And he wrote it everywhere.

In tiny letters, both printed and cursive, and very neatly, Gideon inscribed Christmas on everything he found -- random papers, napkins, note pads, what have you.

Gideon showing something to his big sister, Alexis

Amanda told me that she'd be going through the mail, or consulting her shopping list, or sorting a desk, and there it would be: Christmas. Christmas. Christmas.

He simply loved that lovely word, and was addicted to writing it.

I told Amanda later that out of all we talked about and rejoiced over and shared and laughed about during our visit that night, the thing I will never forget is that story about her Gideon loving to write the word Christmas.

Speaking of which: Cat Dog Rat I Love You, and -- hurrah! -- it almost IS Christmas.

In a few days we'll be stacking these plates up again

But first, we must all have a truly happy Thanksgiving.

One that we will always remember, and the memory of which we will treasure amongst all the other simple yet priceless things with which we have been blessed.

One in which we are found to be genuinely grateful. 

And that is all for now.

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Monday
Nov202023

Monday Mirth :: unemployed

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Monday
Nov132023

Monday Mirth :: finished

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Wednesday
Nov082023

Time for a coffee break

I picked up this enameled cast-iron calf at Tractor Supply

Time for a little update as to what's going on around here.

Our electrician sent out a team to install the round back-lit bathroom mirror that was sent to replace the one that broke after five months.

The fake fall foliage is distributed for maximum effect

They were here for about fourteen minutes.

It's one of those things that's not the least bit complicated if you know what you're doing.

So we are in business again -- until we aren't. Forgive my skepticism but once burned ... you know the rest.

My salt and pepper shakers are for looks only

The extra-large battered-looking round green metal clock in the TV room is back on the wall. Up and running, as it were. So far, so good.

We are back to frothing heavy cream, too, for our coffee. Every day. Singularly satisfying, that froth on top of the Joe.

To celebrate, we're planning a party not only for this coming Friday night, but for the next Friday night too.

These wooden crates come out every year

And the week after that is Thanksgiving, and boy will we ever have a houseful.

For the first time in our married life, TG and I have had to make arrangements with one of our children and their family to stay in a hotel when they are here for the holiday.

My Thanksgiving table runner features pumpkins

There's just not enough room for everyone. Audrey hosts a few of her nieces, who love hanging with Dagny, and one of the subject family's children will stay here with us (in our room, on the floor), but that puts us full up.

Erica offered to keep some folks as Elliot is still sleeping in his bassinet in her room, meaning that she has a guest room until that room becomes Rhett's room. But we decided that with the new baby still less than two months old, we'd spare her the extra work.

This little fox was picked out by Dagny a few years ago

Not to worry. It will be fun for everyone.

The next two Friday-night dinner parties will be with church friends. We are looking forward to these fun-filled soirées and I am busy planning menus.

I'll give a full report after the fact.

Gnomes hanging out on the ledge

Meanwhile, at the end of last week I put all of the October decorations away and brought out simply every autumnal doodad and whatnot and layabout and knickknack and so forth, along with fake foliage, that I possess, and scattered thoughtfully placed everything around.

Mostly in the eat-in kitchen, but there are accents in the TV room too.

It's hard to believe that in a few weeks, I have to put all of that away for another ten months, and haul out the Christmas stuff.

If you come over, one of the first things you'll see is this little house

How can this year have evaporated in such a way? Ah. Just like every other year has done. That's how.

At any rate, there is another new addition to my kitchen: a coffee bar.

TG is rolling his eyes somewhere. He does not drink coffee so is not the least bit simpatico with those of us who do. However, he is sweet about the quiet clamor that tends to develop around this particular beverage.

These towels hang on the oven door

He endured my "having to have" a Keurig coffee maker -- since time out of mind I had used one of my collection of French presses to prepare my daily coffee, and a percolator when we had guests -- when, back in early September, I used my son's new Keurig and was red-pilled to the concept.

That necessitated me buying my own Keurig (which was on order before we even returned home from that trip), and my introduction to the world of K-cups, and all that goes along with that.

My cake stand is holding pumpkin trinkets until I make a cake

Side Note: I think I've asked you this before, but do y'all have a CostLess store? We do and we're all crazy about it. I really believe ours is the only one, though.

It's wildly successful. Becoming more crowded every time we go. And they have a rewards program!

Audrey told me the other day that at CostLess they have boxes of 72-count Donut Shop K-cups for twenty-one dollars. I haven't seen it with my own eyes but when I do, I will be buying some of those.

This turkey holds up his end of the table

Never mind that I just bought a box of 100 Donut Shop K-cups for thirty-nine dollars at Costco, thinking I was pretty smart for getting the price-per-cup down to thirty-nine cents.

If Audrey is correct (and I'm sure she is), the cost per cup of the box at CostLess is twenty-nine cents.

My coffee bar

And yes, I do realize that I am paying lots more for cups of coffee these days, than I did when I bought the ground coffee and brewed it in a French press, one cup at a time.

Or even in the percolator, ten cups at a time.

The backlit mirror was replaced and has been installed

But in my own defense I no longer order coffee in restaurants and certainly not in the popular coffee shops, where it costs anywhere from three to five dollars a cup.

It's all relative.

And soon, our relatives (and other guests) will be enjoying the latest addition I alluded to above: my new coffee bar.

We got beaucoup candy at our church's harvest dinner

How it came about was, one, as slim and space-saving as the five-inch-wide Keurig is, I was beginning to get nervous about the crowded-ness of the countertop (workbench, my late mother-in-law always called it) where said machine resided.

It was encroaching on a main Crock Pot location, which becomes pretty important this time of year.

Two, as a result of mental ruminations on that subject, a few Saturdays ago I decided to relocate the Keurig to the kitchen desk and make a coffee bar there.

The popcorn machine has gone around the corner into the front room

The desk features four cubbyholes attached to the cabinets above, which cubbies have traditionally held baskets, which held all sorts of things.

I cleaned out the cabinets and put the baskets up there out of sight, and moved many of my coffee mugs to the cubbyholes.

The mugs are in the desk cubbyholes

Put the Keurig on the desk (it had to be at an angle, which I did not like), and drove that arrangement around the block a few times.

It was imperfect in that, the kitchen desk is just that: a desk. It's not a coffee bar. There's a chair there.

I've had fun decorating the Origami coffee cart

The pirate was not happy.

I began searching on Amazon, and even went to a few stores, looking for some ideal (but inexpensive) piece of furniture to sit where our popcorn machine has been sitting for many years, to serve as a coffee bar.

Have you tried Donut Shop Snickers K-cups?

The popcorn machine was wheeled around the corner into the front room, which may sound offbeat to you but it's actually going to be fine. The room (intended as formal living/dining) is not used all that much by anyone but me.

And the popcorn machine can easily be wheeled right back into the kitchen when we make popcorn.

My friend Marsha gave me this little loaf pan and matching spatula

(Whenever I start rearranging things I often think, someone will think this is weird. Odd. Strange. Eccentric.

(And then I think: It's MY house. I'll put stuff where I want to put it.)

(I mean, if someone doesn't like it, they can always leave. But they will be missing out on a good time.)

Pumpkins are nestled everywhere

So that left the wall space to the right of the kitchen desk, for a coffee bar.

I summarily ordered a small baker's rack that would hold the Keurig without having to set it at an angle, and would also hold all of the other coffee stuff.

Minus the mugs, which I really liked in the cubbyholes above the desk.

My friend Marsha gave me this butter dish too

They look cute there and with a coffee bar a few feet away, it is a wise use of those spaces.

So the little baker's rack arrived and I attempted to put it together. I wanted to spare TG the hassle.

Owls and a squirrel and giant acorn

Only, one, I couldn't do it alone and two, I could tell that even all put together, it would look just like what it was: a piece of cheap Chinese junk.

Sorry but it was not up to my standards. I was just trying to save money but in the end, I had wasted money.

We'll be eating lots of pie on these plates

I boxed it all back up exactly the way it had come, and returned it.

Back to Amazon, where I located and purchased just what I needed: a sturdy, heavy, attractive rolling cart by Origami.

So named because it arrives already assembled and folded. I only had to unfold it, set a latch, and put the wheels on the bottom.

This is a mini gnome mug from Hobby Lobby

It's so heavy that the process proved slightly difficult, but I prevailed because I was determined, and have been rewarded with what I consider a primo coffee cart.

That did not have to be put together, piece by piece.

Y'all ... this cart is the bomb. I would say without hesitation, if you need a rolling cart for any reason, either decorative or utilitarian, or both, this is one you should consider.

More gnomes are nestled on the two-tiered tray centerpiece

It's solid -- both literally and figuratively.

This piece of furniture will be listed in my will. It's what I call an instant heirloom. Somebody is going to want it and I will specify who gets it.

So now the coffee bar is in place and I love approaching it every morning to make my coffee.

This little cow is cast iron and very heavy

Lots of counter space and cabinet space (where all the coffee mugs used to be) has been freed up, and I've been enjoying that too.

Then came the flurry of decorating for Thanksgiving, and acquiring of thematic paper dessert plates and napkins for the upcoming festive meals.

That was accomplished at Hobby Lobby, where all such supplies were fifty percent off.

This tiny gnome was a gift from a friend

I'm determined to have the tree up, and all of the Christmas decorations waiting in the wings, to be lit and placed the minute that Thanksgiving is over.

These days I have to get out in front of things.

Soon it will be time to say goodbye to fall

And since Thanksgiving is a tad bit earlier in November than usual, the Christmas season will be that much longer.

What a happy thought.

Tell me the stage of Thanksgiving planning where you are today, a little more than two weeks before the turkey goes into the oven.

May your holiday season hold many blessings

Will you be traveling for your pumpkin pie?

Is your Christmas tree up? And if so is it lit, or waiting to be lit?

I want to know your thoughts on the matter. Spill it.

And that is all for now.

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Monday
Nov062023

Monday Mirth :: we've all been there 

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