What's past is prologue
The above picture was taken on Easter Sunday, March 29, 1964, in Chicago, Illinois.
It is of me (in the white coat), my big sister Kay, and our mother.
Here's one taken on the same day, again of me and my sister, outfitted to play in the spring snow:
Three weeks earlier, I had turned seven. Kay had turned eight the previous December. Mom was twenty-seven.
And again on the same morning, this one of our mother and her then-husband, Jake:
Kay took that picture of them on the stoop of the building where we occupied a small apartment.
From my birth until I went to college at age seventeen, we lived in eleven states. That's not even counting the state of confusion, of which I at least was a permanent resident.
The reason I know the date and place of these pictures is that Mom wrote it on the back of the photos:
Although my childhood memories are sketchy until later than this, I remember many details of that day.
I remember being taken into a warm, fragrant coffee shop, and perched high on a stool at the counter, where I (and my sister too, I assume, although she has no memory of it) was given a donut -- the kind you selected from beneath a glass dome -- and milk to wash it down with.
And I recall that later, when we returned to our apartment which was kept in immaculate condition by our mother, Jake (we were required to call him Daddy even though that's not what he was to us and we liked him not a bit, because we were afraid of him) had gone to a lot of trouble to make it appear as though an oversized bunny rabbit had visited in our absence and left a trail of goodies for Kay and me to find and place in our baskets.
In case you're wondering, he did that by obtaining some snow with dirt mixed in, and pursed the fingers of one hand together to mimic the paws of a rabbit, and dipped them in the slush, and placed "bunny tracks" on surfaces where they'd show up (such as white tile in the bath) after they dried.
So I guess he wasn't all bad (Jake, I mean. There is no Easter bunny).
It was pretty convincing. At least to a gormless seven-year-old. Anything that led to candy worked for me.
You can probably tell from reading this that I've been doing a little bit of research and a great deal of reminiscing. And that's because I'm working on writing a memoir.
(Yes; I've been working on it for nearly ten years. I'll thank you not to snicker.)
Which leads me to the reason I'm sharing these pictures with you today.
Studying this series of photographs late this past winter, I realized that we were coming up on the fifty-fifth anniversary of that day in late March.
And I realized that twenty-five years to the day after that wintry Easter Sunday that I remember so well, my fourth child -- our son Andrew -- was born.
So I invited my mom and sister to come to Columbia on March 29, 2019, and on Andrew's thirtieth birthday we attempted to recreate the photograph of the three of us taken in Chicago fifty-five years earlier.
(I would have loved to truly recreate it in front of the Stickney School on West Hollywood Avenue in the Edgewater district -- the building is still there, although now it houses condominiums -- but that wasn't an option.)
The building next door to the Stickney School, where we lived, was torn down in the early '70s to make way for a modern apartment complex.
If you're interested in seeing that, click here.
Click down the street a bit -- past the UPS truck -- and you'll see the building in front of which we posed. There's a wrought-iron fence there now, about where our mother was standing.
Other than that, it's unchanged.
Lots has happened to me in fifty-five years, haaahaha. And to you, if you're old enough.
On the day my mother, my sister, and I got together to commemorate the fifty-fifth anniversary of that day in Chicago, we were joined by two of my three daughters, plus one of my three granddaughters.
Mom, Kay, Audrey, Erica, Dagny, and I first went to Sun Ming for lunch. Then we went to Irmo Town Park, where these pictures were taken of the four generations.
Andrew was enjoying his thirtieth birthday elsewhere -- probably at work but he and Brittany may have been out of town. It's been four months; I don't remember it the way I do fifty-five March twenty-ninths ago.
Speaking of Andrew, he's going to be deployed again in a few weeks, to Afghanistan. There, he and other American heroes will put themselves in harm's way to defend our freedoms.
This past Sunday, fifty-five years and four months after the picture at the top of this post was taken, I posed with two of my girls, and also with TG and our boy.
(Our Brittany, expecting her own and Andrew's baby daughter, took these pictures.)
It's a big circle that has gone around and is coming around. It's our God-ordained place on the space time continuum. Our lives are but a vapor. We live with eternity in view.
And, looking both to the past and to the future, we greet each day with a great deal of gratitude and love.
I hope that you do the same.
And that is all for now.
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Happy Tuesday
Reader Comments (12)
Well - that was lovely trip down memory lane! All the women in your family are so beautiful, both as youngsters and now. I think it's wonderful that you recreated those pictures.
Google earth is so cool! It looks like a very pretty area of the city.
Brittany is looking so cute!
Tell Andrew that we so appreciate his service. I know it's never easy to leave and leaving an expecting wife behind has to make it even harder.
PS - I absolutely love that last shot.
@Mari ... When TG and I go to Chicago in September, I do plan to go back there and get a shot! I hope I don't GET shot, haaahaha ... yes I will tell Andrew what you said. It will be difficult for both of them while he's gone but God's got this~! xoxo
Thank Andrew for his service, I know how hard it must be to leave Brittany-and the rest of his family behind. His service is greatly appreciated.
When your mom was young she looked so much like Annette Funicello, she was & is a lovely lady.
@Jane ... I will do that and my mom will enjoy the compliment you paid her. Thanks for stopping by! xoxo
Jenny
Sweet photos...
And thanks for stopping by my blog....you will love the bees wax spray....
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Such a heartwarming post, Jenny. Beautiful people, beautiful places. I had to try and remember how many places we lived with Dad in the Navy. I'll pray for Andrew, for sure. Yes, thank him for his service.
It must have been difficult to call your beautiful mom's husband, Dad or Daddy. I can only imagine. :(
And, listen up - there IS AN EASTER BUNNY! :)
xoxo
@Nancy ... you're welcome and thanks for the tip! xoxo
@Sally ... Nope. No Santa Claus either. But still, lots of reason to rejoice. Yes the word "Daddy" always curdled on my tongue. We can "make" children do lots of things but we can't force them to love us; that's for sure. xoxo
Those were all lovely pictures. The last one ended the story and made me sad for some reason. I guess it is when you get as old as I am, looking back is so sad. Time has just about ended at least here on earth.
I am still looking for Brittany. Mary said something about a cute Brittany. I haven't seen her in a while. I am so happy that they are expecting a little girl.
I can hardly see what I am typing here so there may be a lot of mistakes.
You and your girls ……..so pretty! The men are not too shabby either!
@Cheryl ... I know, the last picture is sad. It was just so pretty with the petals all over the walk (such a gorgeous day!) and the metaphor of everyone going away, getting smaller and smaller, was hard to resist. Yes we'll all be gone soon; it's a fact and I guess we best keep it on our minds because as I said, "eternity is in view." ... No, you're right -- there's no Brittany pictured. I don't know what Mari saw but Brittany was taking the pictures! I'll get a shot of her soon so you can see how cute she looks. Thanks for your kind comments and it's so good to "see" you again! xoxo
I love this post, Jenny. Seeing the 4 generations of women together speaks of a a circle that continues to spiral in your life. Your mother’s smile melts my heart. I’m smiling back at all of you.
I will put Andrew back on my prayer list.Flying those planes, as he does, always make me a little scared and having him away when his first child is born, makes me very sad.
Aren't we lucky, well your Mom and I are, to still have 4 generation photos capable of being taken.
I have a new great grandson, but haven't had the opportunity for our 4 generations photo as yet. He's still wet behind the ears. LOL
@Barb ... I see that lovely smile of yours! Thanks, my friend. My mother has always had a beautiful and ready smile. xoxo
@Judy ... haaahaa you'll have time to get that shot. And I'm happy to say that Andrew will be home at the end of September, God willing, and the baby is due in early December. He would not miss the birth of that baby girl. But YES please do pray for him, because you're right: it is scary. But then, these days, everything is pretty scary. We're leaning hard on the Lord. xoxo