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Have it our way
Thursday, May 1, 2025 at 03:44PM 
It really is an incredible sandwich. When they do it right.
Since I rhapsodized earlier this week about a certain hamburger -- Joyland's The Original Crustburger, to be specific -- it makes sense to me to tell you about two other recent hamburger/sandwich experiences.
It is a cautionary tale if ever there was one.
A few weeks ago -- it was Good Friday -- we all traipsed up to the line between the states of North and South Carolina, Exit 90 off of I-77, the Fort Mill (or Carowinds) exit, for a birthday party.
The birthday honoree was none other than our beloved granddaughter Allissa, who turned seventeen on Tax Day.
You may recall, if you've been reading I'm Having A Thought Here for any length of time, that we have met our eldest, Stephanie, and her family in that area several times a year, for years, to celebrate birthdays.
At that exit are two restaurants that are ideal for such gatherings: Cracker Barrel and Culver's.
As you no doubt know, Cracker Barrel is a sit-down dining experience, with a proper server for your table, and all that. Most pleasant.
Culver's is fast food but it is GOOD fast food. Good the way that Chick-fil-A is good. This ain't McDonald's. The major draw at Culver's is the ButterBurger. And then there's that frozen custard. Don't get me started.
Be that as it may, for the overwhelming majority of the times we have met at the state line for birthday parties, the family chose Cracker Barrel as our venue.
Until last fall, when as I wrote here, we met there for a small bridal shower for Audrey, and found that some random person in the Cracker Barrel organization who no doubt thinks they are a genius, decided to overhaul the interior of this American institution.
It's not a birthday without balloons
Y'all. Once again: If it ain't broke, don't fix it. And as a side note, the two Cracker Barrels in our neck of the woods remain as they were. May it ever be so.
Anyway after that experience I vowed to never darken the door of that particular Cracker Barrel again, and I meant it, so that meant that what was left for a party venue at that exit which is so convenient for all involved, was Culver's.
The children -- especially our North Carolina grandchildren a/k/a the Tar Heel Tootsies -- were thrilled at that idea. They adore Culver's.
So it was that we all met up at the dinner hour on the appointed day. That's when things began to go downhill. The problem seemed to be that that Culver's location, while extremely popular, is poorly managed.
Although there were scads of employees, the wait times were excessive. Stephanie had submitted her order via the app while on the road between her house and Culver's, and yet she still waited more than an hour after arriving at the restaurant, before they came up with her family's meals.
She had to beg, and plead, and stand in line for at least a half hour, to get their order. It was frustrating.
The ButterBurgers, they claim, are not frozen (the patties, that is) and are cooked to order. Naturally that takes a beat longer but even allowing for this, and for the fact that it was a Friday night, the wait times were too long.
Meanwhile I, who do not as a rule order anything on apps, had studied the Culver's menu on my phone while we were on the road. It takes us ninety minutes to get there, so there was plenty of time.
I knew I wanted the classic ButterBurger with fries. As it turns out though, they have a version called The Works which happens to be just the way I like my burger: with ketchup, yellow mustard, pickles, and diced onion.
Ooooh that's what I'm having, I enthused to TG as he drove.
That was one happy birthday cake
And yet, after we arrived and greeted everyone and arranged our tables to accommodate the large group, and I went to the counter to order, something went wrong.
Of course I was not aware until a good deal of time later (as I said, it was taking them a minute to get the orders out), that something had gone wrong.
So it was that when my hamburger and fries arrived at the table (they bring it out to you), and I took a few bites, I realized that I was eating a double (two patties) and not a single, which is what I had ordered.
Also, the double burger in question was slathered with mayonnaise -- the pirate does NOT do mayonnaise as a sandwich topping -- plus a huge slice of tomato, and lettuce, and giant rings of red onion. The burger was so stuffed with stuff I never order on a burger, that I was immediately grossed out.
I took it back up to the counter and got someone's attention. She turned out to be a polite and professional young lady. I explained that I had not been served the burger that I ordered.
She assessed the situation and concluded -- not in an unkind way -- that I had not ordered correctly. She surmised that I had used the words All The Way instead of The Works when telling the cashier what I wanted.
But, I said (because I did not remember doing that), why then do I have a double instead of a single? Because I know I ordered a single.
She said she did not know but not to worry, she would see that all was put right.
And it took a while, but she did indeed do that, and the resulting ButterBurger The Works was intensely delicious. I followed it up with a small serving of chocolate frozen custard.
So all really is well that ends well.
Stephanie had thought of everything for Lissy's party
I wish I could say the same about the Jersey Mike's Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak that TG and I ordered earlier this week.
Wow they eat a lot of fast food, you may be thinking. Or even saying. Really we don't, but on occasion we do. Just go with it.
It's baseball season, and during a recent game which TG and I watch with our MLB subscription so that we never miss a Cubs game, Jersey Mike's advertised this sandwich.
I was immediately intrigued because the words "hot honey" have a particular charm to my ear.
So it was that a few weeks later, on a Sunday afternoon when we had Dagny with us, we decided that lunch would be sandwiches from Jersey Mike's. Because I had to try that hot honey chicken cheese steak sub.
Dagny wanted a chipotle chicken sub, so she ordered the half-sandwich version of that. TG and I got the giant size of the hot honey chicken cheese steak, cut in half. This sandwich costs just under twenty dollars.
The lady behind the counter was slightly off. As in, she refused to look up at anyone, and she mumbled. So that, when you were standing there and she was saying something, you could barely hear her and you weren't sure if it was you she was addressing.
But we got through it, and took our sandwiches home and sat down for lunch.
When I tell you that you must try this sandwich, I am not kidding. The Jersey Mike's Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak is money. Scrumptious. Just the right amount of heat. Exceptionally fresh and tasty ingredients. Everything and I mean everything, that a hot sub sandwich should be.
On top of the succulent flaked chicken which is tender and flavorful, they put slicing pepperoni as well as American cheese and onion. Then they drizzle the hot honey and the result is spectacular.
Our beautiful Allissa is seventeen
I could not forget that sandwich but I let about three weeks elapse before deciding that it was time to have another one. My mouth was watering just thinking about it.
This was last Monday. We'd had a busy day. Some workmen were at the house well into the dinner hour, repairing the through-the-wall unit in our sun room. It was seven o'clock before they left.
And that was the exact time that the Cubs home game was set to start (after a wee rain delay), and so I asked TG, who already had one small errand to run, if he'd go by the Jersey Mike's (it is a scant two miles from our house) and get us a Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak.
He said sure, and I settled in to watch the game, dreaming of the scrumptiousness of that sandwich.
TG returned home and we got our plates ready and took them to the TV room to continue watching the game.
After a few bites, I looked at my sandwich. The perfectly cooked, spicy and tasty chicken was there. But the slicing pepperoni, the American cheese, the onions, and the hot honey were missing. Just not there.
I called the Jersey Mike's. I explained the situation to the friendly young lady who answered the phone. She asked if we had our receipt. I said yes.
She said, Would you like your money back? I hadn't really thought that far ahead and I just said words to the effect of, well what I want is to be eating the sandwich that we ordered. And we sort of left it at that.
But after we'd eaten our plain chicken sandwiches with no pepperoni, no cheese, no onion, and no hot honey, TG decided to take his receipt back over there and see if they'd at least comp us a sandwich for a future date.
Dagny and her cousin Rhett are attached to one another
He returned home a bit later and pronounced that attempt as having been a total disaster. Not only would they do nothing to compensate us for being given an incorrect order, but they accused TG of not ordering it correctly.
It was all his fault, the lady (not the nice one who I talked to on the phone aand who offered us our money back, but the one who mumbles and will not look at you) behind the counter said. You ordered the chicken sixteen and that's how it comes.
TG said: But I pointed at the big placard to the left of the display menu behind the counter, and said I want that one, the hot honey one.
(The Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak is the only hot sub on the Jersey Mike's menu that features hot honey.)
She ignored him. You already ate it and we're not giving you nothing, is a paraphrase of her reply.
Can you imagine treating a customer like that? They come to you with their receipt and tell you that you got their order wrong, and you argue with them, blame them, and send them away with zero reason to feel like ever visiting Jersey Mike's again.
It sort of reminded me of this odd experience that you may remember that we had, about a year ago. It was at the Runway Cafe at the Greenville Downtown Airport.
You can sit in the windows which double as walls and watch small planes land and take off while enjoying a hamburger and fries.
Elliot a/k/a Skippy was enthusiastic about all that occurred
That was the time that the extremely testy lady at the counter, after I'd told her what I wanted on my burger, told me that I was required to order by telling her what I did NOT want on my burger.
? ? ? ? ?
That one still amazes me. Super strange.
Anyway, we got through that and we'll get through this too, but it makes me wonder why so many angry people work behind counters where food is ordered and served up, dealing constantly with the public, when they in fact seem to vehemently dislike the public, and cannot admit it when they fail in their mission.
By the way, during college I worked as a waitress. That is hard work, and I loved it. It made me so happy to trot around getting folks what they needed. Good times.
But aside from that, whatever happened to rule number one, the customer is always right? And when in doubt, refer back to rule number one?
I don't want to set the world on fire ... I just want to start a flame in your heart
Seems to have gone with the wind. More's the pity.
The takeaway? When you approach a counter (or the window) in a fast food place, say what you mean and mean what you say. As in, tell them EXACTLY what you want and do not want on that order.
At that point? All I can come up with is, may the odds be ever in your favor.
And that is all for now.
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Happy Thursday
Reader Comments (18)
Aaaargh! So very frustrating! This attitude issue seems to be growing and affecting many areas. The same people that act this way with customers tend to be entittled in other ways too. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
Thankfully, the Cracker Barrel in our area hasn't changed. We also have a Culvers in our town which is well run and happens to be our girlies favorite place to go to. We don't have Jersey Mikes near us though!
@Mari ... isn't that the truth? Seems like in the past -- oh, five years or so (ahem), people in service jobs think they can treat the customer with contempt and get away with it! I'm glad that most people in these kinds of jobs are still the courteous, hard-working kind. I have lots more stories like that than I do the other kind! Culver's, yay! Now that's a good hamburger!!!! xoxo
I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
Our Jersey Mike's has the music turned so loud, they can't hear you to take your order, and then they get cranky with you. The last time I ate there, the order was wrong, and the food was just nasty. I was so incredibly sick that night-I can't even look at a Jersey Mike's now.
Firehouse Subs is better, but we don't have one close by.
Yikes! Sounds like you have been in Fast food purgatory. It seems to me that not very many people take pride in their work anymore; like you used to do when you were a waitress. And forget them ever owning up to a mistake. I suppose if they admitted to that, they may fear getting fired or demoted. But still, if they would only treat you courtesy and with respect, most people would not report them.
@Jane ... ugh that is a horrible story! All I can say is that that first sandwich was more than memorable. Now, we do have a Firehouse Subs also two miles from our house, and TG and Dagny love that place. Dagny gets the Hook & Ladder sandwich and I'm not sure about TG but the only thing I've had from there is the meatball sub. It was pretty good but I don't hanker after it or anything. xoxo
@Ginny ... Yes! Fast Food Purgatory is right! Except, that first Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak was so good, I will search for a Jersey Mike's that'll do it up right again. You are right when you say that people don't seem to take pride in their work anymore. And of course they should always treat the customer with respect but that's what is on the way out. I don't agree with customers being abusive to service personnel but it is completely a two-way street! And the larger part of the burden is on them to do their job correctly in a timely manner, with courtesy. xoxo
Service at so many places now is just awful. I think our worst was at our Cracker Barrel (not revamped) where TBG was served basically raw eggs. When we showed them to the waitress, her response was "I don't know, I don't eat eggs" and walked off. Can you believe it??? I was a waitress for 4-5 years too and I just can't even imagining just walking off.
We have a Culvers a couple of miles from our house and they do have really good burgers and I love their onion rings. So far, the service there has been exceptional.
Love all of the pictures. Elliott is such a cutie!!
Take care my friend!!
@Lori ... wow that is hard to believe that happened at a Cracker Barrel! I hope you complained to the manager! I don't put up with bad service at CB. We've been loyal customers for too long to do that. Culver's for the win! Now I'm hungry for one of those ButterBurgers! Yes our Elliot is quite the darling boy. Ten times more beautiful in person if you can believe that! xoxo
My dear Cub's Fan, may you have a fun season. :-) And well as you know, I am happy you have CC. Us Brewer fans are still at odds with the fella, how could he. Born and raised a farm boy right here in Wisconsin, played ball here for the Crew... and then decided to cross into Illinois. Very difficult to forgive. Hee Hee!!!
We lost our dear Bob Uecker ... he was our radio play by play ... late night games in California, I would fall asleep listening to Bob.
We do not have CB here. But we are HOME to Culvers. That is Wisco cheese you enjoy!! :-)
Love you Pirate!
Go Brew Crew. Hee Hee!!
You got a lot of mileage out of sandwiches, but you wrote in an interesting way. Regarding the first situation, it is a good idea to meet halfway or partway. We do that with Sue’s sister sometimes, except the weather has to be good because it is outdoors in a park in a small town.
I make them read my order back to me before they leave the table or counter. AND...I think they need to cut back on all the cutsie names they give the burgers!! Silly! I order a reg cheeseburger with NO VEGGIES and with mayo. I know, pretty much a kid's burger but I can't stand all the dripping that comes with tomatoes and the lettuce.
Pretty hard to mess that up! lol
I hate lettuce except in a salad...go figure!
hugs
Donna
@Carla ... hahaha I have yet to order the cheese curds at Culver's ... love me some fries so much that I can't bring myself to switch out. Maybe someday! Yes I am warming to Craig Counsell ... actually he had intrigued me for a number of years before he betrayed the Crew, hahaha! He got heartily booed last night but we loved the score: 10-0 Cubbies! May it repeat itself today. Meanwhile that is QUITE a baseball venue and TG and I are plotting a trip where our Cubs play back-to-back at home and in Milwaukee, and we'll go to all the games! That is a pipe dream but something to look forward to! Yes RIP Bob Uecker! Great baseball guy xoxo
@AC ... Yes it is a great idea to share the driving distance! It has worked well for us over the years! xoxo
@Donna ... Good idea and that's it! All the sliding and dripping, ugh! Just give me ketchup, mustard, pickles (extra) and diced onions! Do not come near me or my sammich with mayo, hahaha! xoxo
Happy Belated Birthday to beautiful Allyssa! Funny you mentioned Culvers because Rich and I just ate at one today! I love their butter burgers. Rich always gets a small vanilla shake. I never do because I always get a diet coke but then I end up drinking half of his shake! Good thing he loves me! LOL! I've only eaten at Jersey Mikes once and their sub was really good. Rich does lots of Uber Eats deliveries from there.
Unfortunately service just isn't what it used to be.. nor is food quality. Good to hear you were able to get a better meals at Mike's.
Hi Friend,
I was thinking about you this morning. I heard that Pete and Tulsi have been doing PT with the GI's. Would it not be fun if your Andrew or my Sam would run with Pete or Tulsi or both?
Not sure if you heard in the news, but a commander at Fort McCoy where our Sam is, she would not place the photos of our current leadership up!
She has been dismissed.
And my son Atticus' best friend Cedric will be departing for Basic Training at Fort Jackson on May 22, 2025. He is 23.
Continuing to Pray for our great USA!!
howdy Jenny, well, I'M HALF STARVING after these last two posts!!......the cheeseburgers and birthday cakes and sandwiches!! LOL. Loved reading all about the festivities and your recent trip to Charleston, so glad you had a good time and the tour worked out for y'all too. We used to drive over Angel Oak way most sundays for a picnic after church, very pretty over there. OH!! we eat our burgers the same, you and I.....ketchup, mustard, onion and pickle! I smiled reading that as most dont get them that way. I will NOT EAT MAYONNAISE on a burger, LOL> Allissa looks beautiful at 17 and her cake looked so pretty and delicious. Enjoyed seeing Dagny, Skippy and everyone else, please forgive me any mistakes, this is a new and VERY AGRAVATING KEYBOARD oh my goodness I am making a mess. Love ya and hope to type more later.
So glad you’re posting again! So many of us are waiting for your posts about Audrey’s wedding. We hope you’ll post about that soon.
@Jeanette ... Girl Culver's is the bomb! I'd eat there every few days if I could get away with it, but we know that would not be the case, hahaha! I will never be able to resist a vanilla shake! That's my favorite flavor. You should try one of those Jersey Mike's Hot Honey Chicken Cheese Steak before they take it away off the menu! We were in Kentucky about a week ago and got one (excellent, perfectly executed), and they told me that they may be having supply chain issues with that hot honey! Oddly enough the hot honey they use is called Mike's Hot Honey but it has no affiliation with Jersey Mike's! In fact, I saw the Mike's Hot Honey bottled and for sale at Buc-ee's! Hahahaha xoxo
@Hena ... Well you seem to find delicious food everywhere you go, hahaha! Yes we did find a good sandwich but you have to stand over them to make sure they make it correctly, hahaha! xoxo
@Carla ... Hey friend! Yes I heard about the female who would not post the picture of the Commander in Chief. Talk about UNFIT to serve! And I did not hear about Tulsi and Pete doing the PT with the soldiers! BUT guess what? About three or four months ago our Andrew (he flies a charter jet) picked up Pete Hegseth at Dulles International in DC and flew him to Mar a Lago! He sent us pictures of him standing with Pete and the pilot of Trump Force One, with the Trump plane in the background!!!!! Can you believe??? If I have your email I'll send you the picture. Sounds as though Cedric is another great American hero! Leaving Fort Jackson before things really heat up is a good idea, hahaha! xoxo
@Debbi ... Girl you are forgiven all mistakes as long as you don't eat mayonnaise on a hamburger, hahahahaha! That is a sacrilege! xoxo
@Amanda ... Ugh I have been thinking a lot about that lately ... thank you for reminding me. I guess I thought by now no one would be interested but I promise that I will write that post! Hope you're having a good week! xoxo
Hi, OH MY ... that is so amazing to hear about your Andrew. I would love to see the photos.
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